Four Methods for Never Letting the Conversation Stop on a Date

“I cannot think of what to say now.” A common dating problem. Here are a few ways to get you past of this moment. Keep them in mind and you’ll always have something to talk about.

1. Observation – Pay attention to what everyone’s wearing, how they’re standing/sitting, and how they’re reacting to each other. Mention something about their body language or clothing. Example:

“You know the way you’re standing means you have a dominant personality.”

2. Location – Make a remark about the place you’re at, then tell a tale about something that happened to you at or near that locale. Have you been there your whole life? Are you there for vacation? Is there an excellent restaurant close by? Is there a secret spot that you and your friends would hang out at in college?

3. Listen – Absorb information as you listen to people talk. This information is great to use later on in conversation. Did someone mention music? Work? Sports? Food? Art? Keep your ears open.

Be certain to ask a woman to elaborate on her responses so that you can glean as much as possible about a woman you want to get to know more intimately.

4. The Future – Are you vacationing sometime soon? Acquiring a new vocation? Seeing a good concert? Ask her opinion on something pertaining to whatever it is that’s happening to you.

Example: “I’m searching for the best bistro to eat at in this neighborhood. I had a girl from my office offer to take me to lunch and I really wanted to find a great European style place. Do you know any good spots?”

Certainly you might screw up. You might say something that isn’t intriguing, but that’s not important. What’s important is pushing yourself beyond your limits. If you push yourself you will get better at these situations and train yourself to be a more natural conversationalist.

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