Show Your Love & Respect & You Win A Russian Girl
June 27, 2008 – 11:29 amAfter finding your dream girl and after your relationship blossoms from just a date into a very much serious relationship, you ought to consider marriage. There are certain ways in which you ought to behave during the engagement, wedding ceremony and the interval between them that will show your girl that you actually respect her and love her.
Girls from Russia grow up fast, owing to the political and economical situation in Russia. It forces them to start to work early in life which may be even early as high school. They have to earn to help their families. Many girls, even underage ones work as bartenders or dancers.
They also work in travel industry as it may take them to different countries and cultures and not only the ones they are brought up following. It teaches them the fact that money is not everything and fun is something that does not end at all. However, this does not indicate that they sell their bodies for money and you must never assume this of your date.
These types of girls are just looking for those foreigners who will respect them and also the struggle that they had been through. Western society is filled with women who are considered gold diggers. These women cheat on you and also take off your money as well as your heart. The Russian women are however very much different. They are polite and loyal and do expect the same from you. When you have proven to them that their charm and personality is more important than their looks, you will be already thinking of asking them for their hand in marriage.
Modern Russian tradition dictates that an engagement should last from 2 weeks to 1 year before the marriage takes place. The bridegroom should be responsible for preparing a romantic atmosphere in which to ask her to marry you. The man should also be in possession of the engagement ring until it is time to ask for her hand. Nowadays, it is not nearly as important to get her family’s opinion before the engagement although if it is important to the future bride then it is something you should consider.
When you receive the answer of a yes, it is time to make sure you meet the parents if you have not done it before. Being modest and respectful is taken into consideration. A difference in age is something that is of a big issue in Russia. Even if you are wealthy, educated and handsome, age will still be a problem. Do not be egoistic. Most of the Russians do understand English even though they do not speak the language. Hence, any thought that does not seem nice should not be let out.
Local Russians are very hospitable and loving. Marriage is looked at as an extremely precious moment in the life of the bride and groom and wedding ceremonies are turned into huge events lasting 2 to 3 days. Be sure that you will meet with all the various family members including the grandparents, cousins, and Aunts that come from all around the country to share this happy moment with you.
Do not neglect any family member, as it is expected that you meet all of the. Prepare for many hugs and kisses from people you do not know or have never heard of. This is the way that they are showing you that they like you and will accept you into the family.
You also need not worry as your bride will be near you always to help you get through all these. If there are questions regarding traditions, customs and rituals, you must ask about it without any hesitation. You will not be expected to learn all about their traditions and your bride will be glad to help you through the basic ones.
Last but not least, enjoy the moment. It will be something to cherish always.
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