4 Signs of Infidelity

June 8, 2008 – 8:47 pm
by Pauline Stradlen

It is a fact that almost 70% of people will cheat on their partner at some point during the realtionship. They are not always caught and often the injured party is none the wiser and continues with the relationship blissfully unaware. However, there are several signs that you should watch out for that may point to your partners infidelity.

The four points below are just a small number of the many signs that you need to be aware of. You need to keep your eyes open and look out for any changes in your partner’s behaviour. There are many more signs that you should look out for and I’ll be writing about these in later articles.

1) Joining a Gym. Be careful if your partner suddenly decides that they want to get back into shape, the most common way is by joining a gym, or jogging before or after work. You should be even more suspicious if you are not invited to join.

2) Sexual Activity. Has there been a change in your and your partner’s sexual activity? This could be an increase or decrease in frequency, or changes in your normal positions. These behaviours may indicate your partner’s infidelity.

3)Secrecy. It is quite normal for everyone to have little secrets, even in a long term relationship. However, excessive secrets is another thing. Keep an eye on your partner with regards to their mobile phone, do they recieve phone calls at odd hours of the day? Do they answer their phone and then walk away out of earshot? Keep it with them all the time - even to the bathroom? It is always a good idea to check their mobile phone records, if there is a number that you do not recognise you can use an online company to check its owner (have a look at my authors bio). If they do not want to show you their records you can immediatley begin to suspect somethign is up.

4) Too Many Details. Quite often when you are telling a story to a group of friends and family you leave out some of the details that are not important, or that you you have forgotten. However, when you lie about things quite often you feel the need to exaggerate all the details so that people will not recognize that you are lying. If your partner feels the need to give you excessive details about their day you’d be quite right if you suspect them of lying.

Whether your partner is cheating on you are not, you need to find out for sure. If you do not find out your suspicions will eat you up and ultimately destroy the relationship. For a relationship to be strong you need to trust your partner.

Nomenclature suspicions are, there is a chance that your partner is not cheating on you, and you are stressing yourself unnecessarily. While you are looking for evidence of your partner’s infidelity, also look at the small things they do which shows they love you.

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