If Your Partner Is Cheating - You Are Not To Blame!

March 29, 2008 – 6:50 pm
by Kristin J. Thorne

One of the most painful and horrifying experiences you can have, is if you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you. You got married, and promised each other eternal love and devotion. But you wake up one day, and sensed that the spark between the two of you is gone, and wonder what went wrong, and why that happened.

You start to think, why your partner has become so cool towards you lately. And you begin wondering if there is anything you did to deserve this kind of behavior towards you.

Just keep in mind, that YOU are not to blame! If your partner starts a love relationship with someone else, it is solely THEIR decision! And cheaters are very skilled at making themselves believe that they are not doing anything wrong!

They make themselves believe that because you are like this, or you are like that, they need to look elsewhere for sex and and love. But how wrong they are! Nothing will ever justify infidelity in a marriage or a relationship, period!

The fact is, that if your spouse is immature enough to think that they can’t talk about their worries and concerns with you, THEY are to blame, not YOU! If your partner isn’t mature enough to know that you will not live in eternal bliss by only exchanging marital wows with each other, is it YOU who is the big problem in this relationship? The answer to that is an absolute NO!

Do you suspect your spouse to be unfaithful to you? Think twice before confronting them directly with your suspicions, unless you are ready to listen to them trying to lie their way out with explanations, such as:

I am just dealing with a bookie for gambling and didn’t want you to find out, or I would never do that to you, I love you sweetie, you should trust me, or I’m giving you all the time and the space that you need. Does this ring a bell?

You need to learn what the most common signs of cheating are, and amazingly enough, most cheating spouses show similar behavioral patterns. Therefore, you have to prepare yourself very carefully, mentally and legally, and you need to gather rock solid proofs before you confront them.

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