Thinking Of The Right Words To Say To Your Princess

March 27, 2008 – 4:38 pm
by Marie Wilson

For most men, being romantic doesn’t come naturally. In fact, as much as we try to “be cool”, romance often makes guys down right nervous. It might be comforting to know, however, that those guys who seem to have it all together about women also get nervous sometimes when it’s time to turn on the romance. Its just part of the way men and women are wired that girls naturally seem drawn to romance and guys have to work to get there.

The good news is that if other guys have learned how to say just the right things to the girl they adore, you and I can too. It’s just a matter of knowing the secret of romance and getting prepared for when the moment comes. And the fact that you are reading this article shows that you are indeed getting ready.

First, think about the last romantic movie you saw. You were probably with your girl and the sweet talking guy on the screen always knew what to say to make the girl want to be all his. That movie was just an example of the many ways we have romantic thoughts and words around us all the time in movies, on TV shows and even on the romantic cards you buy for her. So to start building your list of romantic statements to learn from by writing down and learning some of the best lines from these the movies, poetry and other sources. You can even put them on cards so you can have a few with you on a date should the right moment come along.

Getting prepared like this is not cheating at all. You don’t run around at your job or at school thinking romantic thoughts. So if you use your “cheat sheet” just to change your mode of behavior before seeing the girl you adore, that’s just a little trick of the trade that those smoothies know when they sweep girls off their feet with romantic talk. It doesn’t mean you are going to just repeat memorized lines to your gal. But your homework puts you in the right frame of mind.

In fact, the last thing you want to do is just repeat romantic words from some poem or song hoping that will work. The “trick” of saying romantic things that makes her melt in your arms is to speak the real romance you already feel. If you were to just start chanting learned lines you saw her react to during the last movie you saw, she would see right through that. And to try something clumsy like that is worse than not trying to sweet talk your girl at all.

Genuine romantic words that really work start with a romantic feeling you have inside you. Then you simply use some of the ways of speaking you have learned to put syllables around those feelings. When the words come out that express what you really feel about her, they may not be sonnets of Shakespeare. But they will be your real feelings and she will know that and love you for it.

Your lover knows when you are being genuine and honest with her. Women have a sixth sense about such things so by simply using the feelings you already have, what you will say will be “just right” and it will take you into the romantic time of your date just like you want it to.

Now its gong to take some presence of mind when you know the time is right and you must muster the courage to let that love out from inside you. For girls romance is about love and sweetness but many times it takes a real man with some real guts to tell her how you feel. But think how many times the thought was in your head like “I never want this date to end.” You know it has been here. But you cover it up because guys are just as good at hiding our feelings as girls are about expressing theirs. So the transition you must make is not to push down that romantic thought but to build on it and then finally let it out.

Maybe it will be that next time you and she are sharing an intimate moment and you feel all her affection coming your way that you want to stay in that moment forever. Don’t let that moment pass but somehow find the path between the feeling inside and your mouth. But when the words come out and you experience the explosion of loving from your girl, you may never want to stop this flow of romantic words you can give to your sweetheart.

Now you know the secret that the “lover boys” know that instead of imitating other romantic people, you just turn your eyes inward and discover the romantic guy in you. He is already there. You just have kept him from saying anything to your girl. But by letting that part of you out and letting your lover know your real feelings, you will go from being nervous and clumsy at loving talk to being very good at it indeed.

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