The Damages Infidelity Causes To Society

June 26, 2008 – 11:59 pm
by Alex Archer

We all too commonly hear about cheating spouses and infidelity on talk shows and reality shows. They bring on warring couples who dramatically expose their cheating in front of live studio audiences. Some shows have even popularized the idea of having a fling outside of marriage to fulfill some imagined desire. And yet, the difficulty of a relationship surviving past infidelity underscores the far-reaching and negative effects an affair can have on society as a whole.

If you look at the statistics, youll find that infidelity is a major concern to both married and engaged couples. These statistics also say that one in five divorces will result from infidelity. Its not just the man who is guilty of cheating anymore. Statistics show that women are now cheating on their marriage just as often as the man.

This is a problem that must be confronted if we hope to fix some of the problems facing our society overall. Studies have proven time and again that infidelity and divorce affects more than just the couple involved. Infidelity often causes otherwise stable homes to breakup, which can negatively affect the children in that household for a lifetime.

Often its the children who suffer when a parent is unfaithful. They can have trouble learning to trust members of the opposite sex. Many children suffer from low self-confidence and from feelings of insignificance. Theres a loss of control when a home breaks up that can leave a child feeling insecure. And the child may even grow to resent either or both parents for breaking up their home.

These negative effects dont simply go away as the child ages. As a teen and beyond, the child of divorce may make reckless decisions when it comes to relationships. Some children may cling to what they believe is a loving relationship, even if it is destructive. Other children of divorce turn to illegal drugs and take up other destructive habits. And some children of divorce turn violent, acting out against their parents in destructive and sometimes dangerous ways.

Its not just the children who suffer and are prone to making bad decisions after a divorce. When a couple breaks up because of the emotional hurts suffered when someone is unfaithful, people often act out just as recklessly as the children. They might try to hurt the other person emotionally. Or they might jump into another relationship, just to show the other person that the breakup didnt negatively affect them.

These reactions arent healthy. And most times, when someone comes out of a relationship, they are emotional vulnerable and arent going to make good decisions. In some cases, after an infidelity occurs, it might be a good idea to take a step back and, instead of striking out emotionally, think about whether or not the relationship should be saved. Saving the relationship may save the family from a lifetime of emotional harm.

There is an organization called the Affair Recovery Center that can help people with dealing through cases of losing a relationship due to infidelity. Many times, counseling can help deal with the emotional strife that results from the ending of a relationship, and can also help those who are in a relationship where one party committed infidelity reconcile and possibly heal their marriage. Such counseling can help minimize the effects of infidelity on society, and can help reduce the negative effects infidelity can have on a family as well.

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