Etiquette for a Perfect Wedding
July 4, 2008 – 8:07 amKnowing proper wedding etiquette is a must for your perfect day to run smoothly. Everyone involved in the wedding, from the bride and groom to the groomsmen, bridesmaids and the guests, is subject to these certain rules of etiquette to ensure that tradition is upheld and that everything goes as expected. Not following the etiquette in a traditional ceremony could result in hurt feelings.
The groomsmen and bridesmaid are a large part of the celebration, but they are also supposed to give the bride and groom support when needed. Bridesmaids who try to make themselves the center of attention are certainly displaying poor behavior. Remember, this day should only be focused on the couple and their union in love, so the general focus should definitely be on them. Trying to pull the attention away from the bride and groom happens far too often and should certainly not be attempted by members of the bridal party.
When the actual wedding ceremony is taking place, guests should respect the sanctity of the act. Wedding guests should not act like they are in a situation where certain behaviors are accepted. Guests should be quiet, speaking only when asked to pray or recite something during the ceremony. Using the restroom, falling asleep, or making loud noises should not be done during the actual wedding ceremony. Please remember your manners!
It is quite important for the bride and groom’s parents to follow these basic rules because they are more likely to have attention focused on them as well. If a parent is crying out in happiness during the wedding, this will most certainly cause a distraction that can interrupt the vows and ultimately create a terrible spectacle.
For the bride and groom, keep in mind that everyone in attendance are your guests, and should be treated as such. Yes, they are there for you, but at the same time you should ensure that everyone is comfortable both during the ceremony and the reception afterwards. Try to put yourself in their shoes. What would you like at a wedding or reception as a guest? Is the seating comfortable? Are there enough entree choices to cater to vegetarians or any other dietary issues? What have you done to make your guests feel welcome and appreciated? Always make sure to make the rounds to each table and thank everyone for coming.
Which brings me to the gift giving. Generally, the bride and groom have registered at a store for gifts that they feel would be beneficial to their new life and new home together. When shopping for gifts, guests should do their best to stick to the registry as best they can. Most couples understand that not everything they want will be in everyone’s price range, and so will put a few smaller items on the list. If you are unable to find something on the gift registry, then a gift of cash is always acceptable. Just don’t go overboard.
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